Early Warning Signs You fight constantly or hardly speak. You spend more and more time away from each other. There are more and more subjects "off limits". Either of you has threatened to leave or has done so. You fear you are growing further apart. You or your spouse has lost interest in sex or even touching. You suspect an affair or entertain fantasies of an affair yourself. You feel trapped, misunderstood, taken for granted, angry all the time. If you have any of these warning signs, GET HELP NOW! back to Help Yourself