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Get counseling- go alone if necessary. Find a good pro-marriage
counselor and start working on yourself.
Use a mediator rather than a lawyer to work out your separation
agreement. (Then be sure to have a lawyer ok it). Mediation is much
more amicable!
Learn everything you can on good communication and try to keep the
lines of communication open. Listen, listen, listen.
Read Dobson's "Love Must be Tough"- at least twice! Also read other
books and articles on marriage, anything you can find particularly on
the issues you are facing.
Build yourself a support network of affirming friends and family who
can be objective, DO NOT TAKE SIDES, and who support your efforts at
reconciliation.
If there is The Third Option near you, come!
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